Let's take a step back, my friend.
I love the techniques and flourishes used to meet
women, and date them. And make solid connections and
relationships, if that's your bag, or get laid, if that's
what you'd like. Or both.
But there's one little big thing that's absolutely
crucial to your success.
You need to take the time to become a more attractive
person.
Most people don't like how they look to some extent.
And many people use this as an excuse to not try their
best. I hear men acting defeated that they're not six feet
tall, so they don't even try. They let themselves go
entirely.
Let me tell you: A woman will take a guy of just about
any height that's well-groomed, healthy, and fashionable
over a tall guy who is a mess.
If you're serious about getting the women of your
dreams, you should make a commitment to spend a few
minutes each day grooming yourself.
A big list of little things that'll make you infinitely
more attractive:
-Doing your hair
-Cutting your fingernails
-Washing your face
-Taking a shower
-Styling your hair
-Shaving or trimmering your beard
-Clean clothes
-Clothes that fit your figure well
-Chapstick or lip balm
-Adjusting clothing to look good (tucking/untucking,
how many buttons done up, etc)
-Cleaning your shoes
-Color coordinating an outfit
-Brushing/flossing
-Breathmints
-Eating healthy for even just a few days in a row
-Any kind of exercise, even just 20 pushups once a day
And so on.
Doing little things like that will make a drastic
difference. Get a haircut. If you've got a collared shirt,
go get it pressed at the dry cleaner's. There's now
convenient teeth whitening strips available at the grocery
store. I did it, and I'm really happy I did. My teeth
sparkle. Took me a few minutes a day for a couple weeks.
Don't do these things to "get women". They'll help a
lot, but the main reason you should be doing this is for
you.
And treat yourself to a couple cool, simple
accessories. I like to buy relatively cheap sunglasses
because I seem to lose shades about every three months,
but I have fun with them while I've got them. My current
pair is light blue and transparent. My last pair were
throwback 70's-style rose-colored shades.
Rings are good. If you don't want to make a big
production or commitment to getting a piece of jewelry,
just go put $2 worth of quarters into the little jewelry
machine in front of any supermarket. You'll probably get 1
or 2 interesting rings that'll fit on your pinky.
Get a bracelet or a necklace that has some meaning
behind it. It doesn't have to be outrageous. A silver
necklace from your religion, if you have one, is good. A
Crucifix, Star of David, or Moon and Star will work fine.
Could be a symbol from one of the planets. It could be
anything with something interesting, unique, or important
to you on it.
It'll help with conversation and it'll make you stand
out from the others a little bit. Bracelets go the same
way, by the way. Though it's quite mainstream, something
simply like a Lance Armstrong "Live Strong" bracelet would
show some character and style on your part.
Something I make sure to tell my wealthy students: It's
more important that your accessories are stylish and
interesting than they show you're wealthy. For example, a
friend of mine is involved in real estate and does pretty
well. He has two watches: One is a blue-faced solid gold
Rolex. The other is a cheap Nike runner's watch.
He's into the study of seduction himself, and he came
to find his yellow runner's watch is better for meeting
women than his Rolex. Of course, this varies, but being
interesting and stylish is far more important than
appearing rich (which you can appear to some extent if
you're not wealthy, but carry yourself well).
Body language and posture: I could go on about subtle
nuances of body language for a while, but let me give you
two major components. First, rise up to your full height.
Never slouch, slump, or such. You'll look defeated. Rise
up to your full height regardless of if you're short or
tall.
Second, pick your chin up. Everywhere. Hold your head
high, so your chin is parallel to the ground at worst.
Having your chin pointed higher, towards the sky, is okay,
but never look down towards the ground as you walk, sit,
or talk with someone.
Do little things. Technique takes a bit of time to
develop, and is great, but you can greatly supplement your
technique by taking just a few minutes to do one little
thing for yourself.
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Sebastian Drake has been writing in the fields of
Seduction, Diplomacy, and Leadership for the past five
years. In the past two years, he has won praise and
accolodates for his oustanding and effective coaching on
live programs, workshops, and seminars. He is a cofounder
of theApproach: The Science of Social Chemistry for
the Modern Gentleman, bringing profound lifestyle
changes to any man's social, romantic, and sex life.
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