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Let me ask you a question. It's ok. You don't have to
answer aloud.
Have you ever experienced any of the following things
with a woman?
-Trying to say the right things to "win her over"?
-Attempting to prove that you were her "ideal man"?
-A cautious feeling that any moment you might do
something that would turn her off?
-Wondering at all if she's interested?
If you're like 99.99% of all men in the dating scene,
you've probably answered yes.
Today I'm going to ouline a simple solution to these
problems that you will be able to start using right away.
It's called screening.
The most relevant definition to screening for our
purposes is:
Screen v. To examine (a job applicant, for example)
systematically in order to determine suitability.
When you are with a woman, and it feels as though she
os "systematially examining you in order to determine
suitablility", (Jeez, that's a mouthful) she's screening
you.
The solution you ask?
Simple.
Screen her first.
That's right. Start screening her first, and it will be
very difficult for her to screen you since she'll be too
busy trying to win YOU over.
HOW TO SCREEN:
Before you can examine her for suitability, you first
have to know what you are looking for.
Here's an exercise. Get out a piece of paper and write
down the top 3 characteristics you look for in a woman.
By the way, don't write down things that you can tell
by looking at her. I know there's a few guys out there
that are about to write "hot" as their first
characteristic.
Basically, since you can tell if she's hot based on
your first glance, there's no need to screen for it.
I'll do the exercise with you.
I wrote down:
-Independent
-Passionate
-Supportive
Now, what you'll want to do is design a few questions
to indirectly determine if she has those qualities or not.
This is easy.
For example, for "independent", I might say something
like:
"You know, I really like women who lead exciting lives
of their own. Are you the type of person who would rather
create something completely unique and her own or would
you rather be part of a team?"
It's subtle, interesting, get's right to the point, and
also let's her know you have high expectations.
Here's another hint. Most women when they are
interested in a guy, will work like the devil to pass
their screens.
Don't forget to reward her when she passes your
screens! This will make her feel good about pleasing you
and motivate her to do more of that in the future!
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Vincent DiCarlo is a world famous dating coach. His
experience comes from years of training pickup artists in
underground seduction lairs across the East Coast. He
currently runs theApproach: The Science of Social
Chemistry for the Modern Gentleman, with his
partner Sebastian Drake, and teaches men of all ages and
backgrounds to meet, attract and seduce the most beautiful
women of the world.
Find out what your skill level is with a free
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