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Single and strong yet at the same time desperate
females are the new images of women these days and you see
this portrayed in the media. I am not talking about
Desperate Housewives-- for one, I never hop the bandwagon
and watch or like what everyone else likes. But that
doesn't not make my judgment of men out of sync and
"whack." I digress. My point is the reason why so many
women out there are single is because they believe the
"good men" are all taken. Having a larger population of
women in the world generally does not help either.
So women are desperate. Why are so many men still
single and seeking help from articles such as this one?
For one, men need to have more confidence. Not to the
level where they shoot their noses and chins in the air
and they are disgustingly arrogant. A slight air of
arrogance is sexy. Too much is not.
Building more confidence can start slowly. Learn to
look a person and not just a woman one is attracted to in
the eye. Stand up straight and tall. Don't try to
distinguish oneself with stupid comments, jokes, and
noises. Immaturity is such a turn off, especially when
women these days are out for the kill, meaning they are
serious most of the time. It doesn't mean boyish charms
are turnoffs as well. Just be able to differentiate
between the two. A shy smile, some genuine naivete is not
the same as hair pulling, fart jokes, burping, and butt
scratching.
Relationships are so hard to form and so easy to
destroy these days, proven by the vast amounts of Dating
for Dummies and other such literature on the subject. Love
is taken granted for, hearts are broken, and bonds are not
ever-lasting. We have cynics and skeptics, we have the
strong romantics, we have so many females out there
waiting for romance.
Sometimes, people are overlooked, males and females
alike.
It is also the sad truth that we are build to be
superficial-- yes, we are, no matter how much you think
you aren't, you will still like what is beautiful to you--
and a good population of people are generally not
good-looking.
For men, confidence can help with your looks. As well
as a nod to the metrosexuals, just don't overdo it. A guy
who spends more time obsessing about his looks than a
typical woman is not exactly attractive. Showing vanity is
a no no. It doesn't mean you should spend five minutes in
the bathroom each day, throw together some mismatched
outfit and have pieces of dandruff in your hair and dead
skin/dirt on your face and hands.
Just know, you are doing this for yourself. When you
are ready for a relationship, build your confidence, take
care of yourself, and try to loosen up a bit. Sweep girls
off their feet. They are tired from waiting for the right
one. Compromises, people... We must all compromise and
make little sacrifices for what we want in the end!
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