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Literally speaking, there are 365 dates in a year.
Figuratively however, that's not exactly how many dates
one will go on throughout the duration of the year. Not
even close.
With society's addiction to convenience comes another
form of grab and go: speed dating. But before you say,
"Not so fast," look at these reasons this method of
meeting someone worked for many couples.
Perks to Speed Dating:
NO SUPRISES! UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL! You get what you
see. With Internet dating, you could be looking at
someone's senior yearbook picture- but the youthful woman
is really a 58-year-old cat lady. Or, it could be a
computer-manipulated image to make someone look younger,
older, thinner, and hotter... You get the idea. With speed
dating, you are face to face with a real person. What you
see is what you get. Personality and image get to shine at
the same time, rather than falling for someone through
e-mail or phone calls, and then getting nothing but
disappointed when finally meeting in person. With speed
dating, personalities could still clash, but that physical
element is there from the start. More often than not, that
physical spark needs to be there, so why not start with
one? A cute demeanor, silly facial expressions and style
are all things that a phone call, Website profile or photo
cannot do justice!
SAFETY Again, you get what you see. You never know what
is on the other end of the phone or computer when you are
chatting. Hello?! Look at all these news stories of people
being lured across the country by some psycho on the other
end of the keyboard! And, this is not some seedy, dark bar
that you were supposed to meet a blind date in either.
Speed dating events are done in supervised, public
locations in your own local area. These are people from
your neighborhood in your neighborhood.
SINGLE When you see a cute guy or gal out at a bar and
strike up a conversation, chances are they may not be
telling you the truth about their status. Maybe they are
married, engaged or dating. You may innocently hit on
them, not knowing. They may like the attention and play
along, which could lead to regrets. And, you not ever
knowing, or finding out too late, of their commitment.
Also- how many times to you try to talk to someone who
just did not want to be bothered? Speed dating presents a
way to meet people just like you: single and looking.
AFFORDABLE Have you ever looked into one of those
dating services? Oh my! It's upwards of $1000 for a
membership. For what? Letting someone else do the
matchmaking for you? Internet sites cost monthly
memberships as well, but think how outdated those profiles
can be... someone meets someone and forgets to take down
their profile. You never get a response because, of
course, they are not looking anymore. That is a waste of
time and money! Speed dating parties are usually around
$20-$30 for one night of fun, where once registered, you
can do the fun part yourself- getting to know someone
personally, and maybe even start a meaningful
relationship!
Speed dating- a proven safe, affordable and fun way to
meet someone like you. Give it a try!
About the Author
Donna Talarico writes for
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